2017 has been a roller coaster ride. I have climbed, & stood tall, at the top of many mountains and I’ve fallen into valleys. I’ve experienced suffering, sadness, hope and happiness. Sometimes all in the same day. I was stranded in one place & I have traveled to different places. I thought I was horrible at art & I felt like an artist. We lost a dog (Scrappy) & we gained a dog (Fae). I learned I will eventually need a kidney transplant & we learned that my mom and brother are both matches. I found out I need a hip replacement & I found an amazing surgeon. I lost friends & gained new friends.
What I am getting at here is that with every “bad” thing that has happened to me, something good has also happened. Sometimes not right away, but good things have always come. So we can’t sit on the negatives when surely something good is soon to come. While I know challenges are ahead in 2018, I made it through 2016 and through 2017…I can make it through anything. One year is only 1/26 of my life…that is only 3.8%. And as each year comes that percentage will become less and less. So in time, these challenging years will be a tiny percentage of my life as whole.
I have 8 goals for the new year and I want to be held accountable to reach my goals. So I am making all of them known.
1. Every week, write down at least 1 positive thing that has happened to me. Save them and read them to myself on 12/31/2018.
2. Partake in at least 5 fundraising/volunteer events throughout the year. Whether it is at an event or raising awareness for a cause.
3. Keep a positive mind.
4. Get a new hip and use my new hip to exercise more.
5. Travel to 3 places I have never been before.
6. Go on my first hike since transplant.
7. Make it to Wilmington, NC to learn more about where my donor, Samantha, is from.
8. Take a cooking class & cook more often.
I hope each of you have learned and grown during 2017. And I wish you the most health and happiness during 2018. Stay positive, stay happy and stay strong!! And remember that good things are always to come!
And with that I will say, Happy New Year!!
Some photos from 2017: